by Irena Whitfield
Over the recent weeks I receive more and more messages
complaining about various problems you encounter every
day discouraging many of you from doing online business
and making you leave the Net.
Today I am taking this opportunity to tell you a couple
of words about this.
Don't believe that there is a person completely without
problems. It's decisive how you handle your problems, how
important you allow them to grow and how much you allow
them to damage your attitudes and your motivation.
In fact, problems help us to grow and what more: problems
allow us to compare and enjoy the positives we have. Without
problems you will slowly grow into a state in which you don't
appreciate and enjoy anything. You won't even realise you
have something valuable, something other people long to have
and you do. Problems are only challenges, tests to see how
strong, how devoted you are. So, don't complain so much.
Never allow your problems to ruin your attitudes and motivation.
It's necessary to prevent problems and prepare yourself. It
doesn't mean problems will not come but the better you are
forearmed, the better and faster you will react and solve
the unpleasant situation, the less time you will lose
and the less important it will be for you. A problem is
just a little delay on the pathway to your great goals,
making them more precious. Problems must not ruin your goals.
It is true that the Internet has changed a lot since I
started, people have changed, the ways they use it have
changed, and I would say it's grown, advanced and also,
it's getting more expensive.
Bigger and bigger money is getting involved and where big
money is present, there are always dirtier ways involved.
It is simply the way our world goes. Whether you or me agree
or not can change nothing about it. The sooner you realise
and accept the fact that our world is not black and white,
the better for you.
I don't think problems on the Net nowadays are bigger or
smaller than problems in our offline world. Definitely,
don't think that if you run away from the Net thinking
that you failed will help you to succeed in the offline
business. You won't. Runaways don't solve problems, we
have the ability to arrange our lives the way we want by
solving problems, overcoming them and working hard, not
by running away.
You can read a lot about solving unpleasant situations or
problems. There are thousands of ways, all of them great,
but only you can pick up the one working for you. I can
tell you about my way reliably working for me:
When I encounter a problem, I never indulge in thoughts
telling myself what I should have done to avoid it and why
I didn't. I always do my best in important situations, and
though later it may show different, it can't be helped
because I didn't have the facts at that time, so it's
useless to cry and pity. I know for sure that if it
occurred again, I would do exactly the same. The only
thing I can do is to collect facts, solve the problem,
repair and make up for the consequences as fast as possible
and go on. Never regret. Just work hard looking in the
future, always in the future.
Every second there is a new chance, and if you cry over the
past, you would lose your future. Feed your dreams, work and
live for your dreams and goals, they're definitely worth
it if you want them so much. Or you don't? Never give up,
it's much more difficult to live with the fact that you
gave up, failed than with a couple of problems all of us have.
As soon as you decide, get involved, get committed, work
and persevere. That's all there's to it!
If you feel desperate at times, stop and think about
all the positive the Internet and your online business
bring you.
The grass always seems greener on the other side but it
doesn't mean it is and it's not always worth checking it.
(Though sometimes it is. :-))
Wishing you a happy time before I talk to you next week
in our regular Issue.
Sincerely,
Irena Whitfield,
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