Happy Valentine Day
Love is a prime motivator in life. With Valentine's Day,
February is a month that brings people's focus to love.
They think about sharing that romantic evening. They look
for that special card or gift to show their love. They feel
sad because that special someone is not in their life.
But February is also a good time to focus on another type
of love, the love of life. The love of life can be as
important in the quality of your life as your love
relationship.
Utopia is the ideal life. You love everything about your
life. You love where you are. You love whom you are with.
You love what you do. Everything is perfect. You could say
Utopia is loving your life completely.
Utopia is an ideal. Utopia does not exist, except as an
ideal to dream about and to try to achieve. But an attitude
of love can open the door to you perceiving life in a
utopian way.
Your perception goes a long way in determining what your
life is like. Is the glass half empty or is the glass half
full. Only you have the answer for you. Is life hard and
full of scarcity or is life wonderful and full of abundance?
You decide, for yourself, everyday, by how you perceive the
events of your life. Let's say you're having a rough time
at work. Everything is going against you. Your partner seems
to want to fight you in everything you do.
You can look at this scenario anyway you want. You can say,
"I can't take this anymore," and quit. You can say, "I hate
this, life stinks." Or you can look at it from another
angle and say, "This stinks, something is wrong here. If we
can figure it out maybe we can get over this and be better
than ever."
Each scenario is correct depending on your perception. Your
perception will have something to do with how this scenario
plays out.
If you quit, it doesn't matter what happens there, because
you'll be gone. If you say "life stinks," you only add to
the sour atmosphere.
If you lovingly look for a solution, maybe you can help
turn things around. If you can't improve the situation and
it really is better to quit then you have learned some
valuable lessons that may help you down the road.
Your perception affects the results of any situation. That
means your perception controls reality from any point of
view.
How you perceive anything is up to you. Choose to look for
the positives in every situation. You will start to see
possibilities to for improving the situation. The negatives
may diminish because you will be focusing improving things
instead of worrying about all the catastrophes that
probably will never happen.
February is a great time to open your focus to a loving
attitude. Taking a loving approach to your life brings more
acceptance for people and situations for what they are. And
even if it is not the utopia you dream about, your loving
acceptance takes much of the stress away.
Use the love focus of Valentine's Day to look at your life
through loving eyes. Accept what isn't and be grateful for
what is. Open your heart and let others see your loving
acceptance and create a more utopian reality to live.
======================
Take the Love Compatibility Test
The guessing games are over! Now you can find out if you and your partner (or prospective partner) are a compatible combo! Simply take this 15-question quiz, enter your partner's information and we'll send an email inviting him or her to take the quiz. Then we'll compare your responses and calculate your love compatibility score!
Send a Postcard to YOUR Valentine
Special Valentine Gifts Waiting Here for YOU Free Chocolate Explosion Recipe book
| ||||||||||||||||||
